Now, look I said up front that Mary is a ball buster. That's not a joke. She is a very no-nonsense lady and that's part of what I love about her. In her piece (you did read it, right?) she delivers some very hard truths that will make some folks uncomfortable, but here's the thing:
She's right!
It has been 92 days since I decided to go keto. In that time I have lost 28 pounds (as of this morning), 2 even clothing sizes, 5 percentage points in body fat, and gone from a W (that's plus-size) to a Petite. I have stopped tracking almost completely. Not calories, not protein, not fat, not even carbs. In fact, the only time I ever open a carb tracker is when I go out to eat at a new place, and that's only so I don't receive any nasty surprises. I control my pantry and fridge and I am vigilant about what goes into it, so I know that I am fine eating what I have on hand and will not knock myself out of ketosis inadvertently at home. I also have had no, as in zero, cheats. No cheat meals. No bites here and there. Nothing. Zip. Nada.
Know why I can do all that and it still works? Because I knew when I started that this is not a diet. This is a way of living. It is a lifestyle. And it is not something I'm doing for now until I get to my goal. It is something I'm doing FOR LIFE. As in forever.
This is a hard pill to swallow. People constantly "do" diets. It's this one today and another one next month. And that's why people constantly fail. Last week I read a piece from the UK on a long-term study they did. It showed that only 1% of people who were overweight managed to ever lose that weight and keep it off in their lifetime.
One percent.
Let that sink in a minute.
That means that right now, if you are overweight you will likely (as in you have a 99% chance to) remain overweight and unhealthy for the rest of your life.
WHY???
I would contend that is because the vast majority of people "go on a diet." And what happens when people go on diets? They expect to eventually go OFF the diet and go back to eating "normally," whatever that means to them.
Folks, let me say something you're going to hate. If you go into the Ketogenic lifestyle with the attitude that you will eventually be able to go back to the old way of eating, YOU HAVE ALREADY FAILED.
Don't fall into the diet trap. This is a way of life and it is forever. That is the ONLY way to succeed. Get your mind right, ACCEPT that this is now your life, this is the way things are, and you can kick your excess body fat to the curb. You can beat back your fatigue, high blood sugar, and other symptoms and indicators of poor health. You CAN do it and you WILL do it, but you have to be all in. Make a commitment. Make a change. Make it for life.
KOKO, my babies!




